I can’t get myself out there on the dating scene until I lose these 20 pounds.
I can’t get into a serious relationship with anyone until I’m making more money.
Who would want me now?
Welcome to the “Someday, Maybe” syndrome.
And we all suffer from it. . . to varying degrees.
We define who we are by external things like bank account balances, our weight, or our status.
And if we haven’t achieved these superficial goals, we create a story about why we haven’t. . .a very disempowering story that we are not worthy.
We become the story we tell ourselves. And we believe it to be true. It’s these stories we tell ourselves that keep us from being happy. . . .from truly connecting with others.
But you can do something about this situation.