This story (I’ll make it brief) goes to show the importance of patience, belief in yourself, and faith that, as Bari says, everything is the way it’s supposed to be.
Adam & I actually met almost 3 years ago. We did the long distance thing on and off, which was challenging for many reasons. After a break of about 9 mths, we bumped into each other in synagogue on Yom Kippur of all days. He called me the night after saying he had relocated to my area, got a good job, resolved a bunch of issues in his private life, and wanted to try again.
Thanks to Bari’s Meet to Marry Method coaching, I was able to approach this time around differently. I was more grounded, focused, and we agreed that we would date “for real” this time: no games, no fooling around, keeping it focused & private. Instead of asking him a question & anticipating the right answer I wanted, I kept my mind and heart open & LISTENED to him. We talked about our answers without judgement or criticism to see if we are compatible. When we decided we were ready, we then told our friends and became a couple once again.
I must say that Finding The One has been extremely helpful for me. It made me realize that I was closing myself off to love due to my fears and insecurities. Beforehand, I had convinced myself that there was something wrong with *him* if he loved *me* (because how could anyone really, truly love me?). I actually felt threatened by affection. So little by little with Bari’s guidance, I wrote about it, thought about it, let go, and enjoyed the journey.
We are both in awe how different this experience has been for both of us. It’s more solid, grounded, and we’re focused on what *we* want, not what others impose on us.
We’re planning on getting married in late May! Wooo-hooooooooooo
Jessica + Adam
Jerusalem, Israel