A few weeks ago, Sarah, a single woman in her mid-thirties—a beautiful, successful lawyer—asked me a simple but really important question.

She got in touch with me after attending one of the free webinars I hosted before registration opened for the summer round of my group Meet to Marry™ coaching program.

Here’s what she wrote:

“I really enjoyed your presentation and am curious about your course, but wouldn’t I get faster results if I just signed up with a matchmaker who could immediately connect me with matches?”

She’s right.

On the surface, it makes sense.

Matchmakers can very quickly connect you with potential matches, so it seems they can enable you to skip a bunch of steps in your meet to marry journey.

And honestly, who doesn’t want a shortcut to finding “the one”?

Matchmakers are great—they do have impressive wisdom and experience, but. . . .