It’s about YOU.

It’s not about us.

It’s about you finally finding the right person.

Hi, I’m Bari Lyman

I created the Meet to Marry Method and for over 15 years I’ve helped thousands of
people find their right person. How am I different than dating coaches,
matchmakers, dating sites, or your Aunt
Louise “who’s always had a knack for
seeing good matches?”

I’ve pulled every strategy needed to
prepare you to be with the right person, and then find that right person and I put it all in one rock-solid plan.

It’s about doing the right things at the
right time. And we’re here to coach you
every step of the way until you find the right person for you.

You don’t have to settle …

And you don’t have to worry about being too old, too young, too independent, too busy, too chunky, too short, too tall, in the wrong city, or anything like that to work with us.

But you do have to be coachable and decisive to get results.

Our proven method gets results – but it only works when you choose to implement it. As a successful professional, you know what I’m talking about.

Meet to Marry is not a “learning journey.” It’s a full-on transformation.

It’s an action-oriented plan to meet the right person for a lifetime of love.

Don’t worry, we’re here to help you every step of the way.

If this sounds like you, watch our training

The 5 shifts people in healthy relationships made to get there.

Meet to Marry is not for you if…

  • You only want friends with benefits.
  • You aren’t 100% sure you want a lasting healthy relationship yet.
  • You are not free to be in a healthy relationship.

We’re all about Love

See real results from people who were once standing in your shoes.

“It’s such a comforting feeling to come home to a house where the lights are on and someone is waiting for me.”

Beth Salinger
Chicago, IL


“I went from floundering with online dating to being the happiest I’ve ever been in my life by meeting this person that is so perfect for me.
And I don’t feel like I compromised anything about who I am or who I wanted to be with.”

Jodi Eilers
San Francisco, CA

“There is no greater gift than finding the right person. The belief that it’s difficult to find that person is all in our head. We’re making it difficult on ourselves.”

Pamela Mikhal Newman
Gainesville, FL

Is it right for you?

The only way to know is to watch the training.

What makes Meet to Marry different?

We were never taught how to find the right person in modern society. So whether you work with us or not, please stop beating yourself up and wondering what you’re doing wrong.

You are good enough!

20 years ago I was successfully coaching career professionals to bust through their limits into their dream job and massive abundance. But my love life – when existent – was a hot mess.

I hit rock bottom when I found myself in a relationship with a drug addict. I despaired over what I could be doing so wrong. Well, besides always picking the wrong guy.

That’s when I took everything I knew about coaching and applied it myself to find the right person for me. When that method worked for me, I kept perfecting the Meet to Marry Method to coach the same professionals I was coaching before, but to help them find the right person instead of job.

Today, Michael and I have been happily married 15 years, living our shareddream life on Compassion Farm just south of Miami.