In “Single, Jewish and Cynical, Reflections of a Jewish Single,” Chaim Lazarus expresses the defeated tone of many singles, and I’d like to offer a message of inspiration and hope to singles of all religions.
While Chaim’s message offers positive suggestions, reading between the lines reveals a tone of resignation and a powerlessness over his situation (i.e., going on dates we know are not good for us, moving to new communities, escaping the loneliness we endure, etc.).
Positive and productive, no doubt, are his suggestions to “never give up on your dreams” and to “see the glass half full.” Maintaining a positive attitude and focusing on the good things in one’s life are wonderful and useful strategies.
