So it’s Valentine’s Day and you’re single. Awesome! You have an opportunity to change your future starting today, and I’d like to show you how. You need to begin with a new commitment to ‘be the one’ and approach things differently starting right now, so that this time next year, you can wake up looking into the eyes of your beloved. Love involves nourishing someone else’s soul, and they your own. As Dean Ornish wrote so eloquently, “I used to feel I was loved because I was special; now I feel special because I am loved and because I can love.”

So if you want Feb. 14, 2013 to be one of giving and receiving love and joyful commitment, you must begin Feb. 14, 2012 a bit differently.

Be honest with yourself and share with others who you truly are and that you are marriage minded.