“If you’re really attracted to someone on an emotional and intellectual level but not physically, what should you do? How do you know whether she’s the right one for you?”

That’s what someone emailed me this week.

LET’S FACE IT

Dating truly is confusing. There are so many options and avenues for meeting people, and sometimes you feel like you’re lost in a maze of possibilities without a clear path.

You want to find that right person. You’re doing everything you possibly can to find love, and yet. . .

  • Your dates just aren’t lining up with the ideal vision in your mind.
  • You’re not feeling the way you think you should feel.
  • Sometimes you date people who look sooooo great on paper, but in your gut, you know it’s not right.
  • Other times, you meet someone who seems to have most of what you want, but you find that you’re not feeling the attraction.

WHAT HAPPENS

You torture yourself because you think you should be attracted to this person because she’s great.

You think. . . .