ARE YOU GETTING IN THE WAY OF FINDING YOUR PERFECT MATCH?

You can change your dating reality right now—so that next year at this time you’re with “the one.”

But if you’re truly prepared and ready to find true love, you’ve got to get real. . .really real.

A new friend came to one of my recent talks. Caroline declared to me that she’s ready to get married and really wants to find “the one” this year.

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Here’s what she said when I expressed my enthusiasm and offered to support her:

“I guess I just don’t know how to pursue achieving my goal. I’m not interested in dating. I’d rather start naturally . . . maybe by dating a friend or acquaintance. But when I think about it, most of the guys I know don’t live around here, are married or in a committed relationship, or they’re gay. I actually made a list of the single straight local guys I know, and it was very short. I really have no idea of where to start.”

REALITY CHECK

Yes, Caroline really wants to get married, but it’s not the guys—or the lack of them—that are holding her back.