Attracting, cultivating, and sustaining extraordinary love relationships requires you to be really selfless? Right?
Wrong.
I’m not saying that you have to be selfish and think only of yourself.
But you do need to be self-centered.
This is one of the big issues we explore in the self-paced online Finding The One course and in private coaching sessions.
Why?
Because most single men and women don’t take very good care of themselves.
But you probably wouldn’t realize they don’t just by looking at them.
Let me give you two examples.
One man in my private concierge coaching program has a remarkable educational background, is extremely successful at investment banking, wears the best clothes, is impeccably groomed, and drives an expensive luxury car. He looks like he’s got it all and that he’s taking of himself. . .taking care of himself quite well.
A woman in one of the recent rounds of Finding The One also has an incredible educational background, is at the top of her game as a litigation lawyer, and is saving lots of money so she can retire young. Every Sunday morning, you’ll find her at the gym running 10 miles on the treadmill and then, after showering, getting her weekly manicure. Again, it seems like she’s doing really well, taking great care of herself.
But the truth of the matter is that neither one of them is truly tending to themselves.
They’re not nurturing their inner lives and souls. . .and it’s hurting their love lives. The same is true for virtually every one of the singles with whom I’ve worked.
So what do you have to do?
